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★★★★★ “Trevor, I have never felt this confident and sure of myself.” Sophie, workshop attendee
Women who stopped chasing, stopped people-pleasing and learned to trust themselves again.
These women worked with Trevor and his team in the Secure Self Club coaching program. Individual experiences vary.
I was anxiously attached and stuck in failing relationships until I built a step-by-step plan for myself. This workshop is the start of that plan.
See where your anxious patterns come from and how a trigger turns into fear with my TEMPO Cycle.
Learn to calm yourself when anxiety hits, so you stop needing reassurance to feel okay.
Replace beliefs like “I have to be perfect to be enough” with a real sense of worth.
Express your needs calmly, without anger, criticism or people-pleasing.
“Trevor, I want to thank you for all the powerful, practical techniques that you passed onto us. I have been applying them for a couple of weeks and I can see the change. I am finally reaching peaceful places internally.”
Lincoln“Trevor, I have never felt this confident and sure of myself. Dating is so much less stressful because I just know that I am good enough.”
Sophie, workshop attendee“When I came to you, I was at such a low point not knowing how to make things better. I have never felt more focused, confident, & happy than I am now.”
KatherineA coach from my team looks at your result and maps your next steps with you.
FREEThe hidden fears behind most relationship struggles, and how to break free.
FREEMy 40-minute workshop on holding boundaries without guilt or fear of losing someone.
FREEMy 18-minute seminar on breaking the cycle that keeps you stuck in the same relationship patterns.
FREECalm, secure words to replace “they won’t love you unless you’re perfect.”
FREEFill-in-the-blank pages to map your cycle the moment you feel triggered.
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I didn’t just read about this in a textbook. I lived it. A few years ago I was anxiously attached, stuck in a toxic relationship and burned out in my corporate career at Tesla. My life was so chaotic that I even broke my jaw.
I’ve been featured by the Gottman Institute, and this workshop takes you through the first 4 stages of the Secure-Self Journey I teach inside my Secure Self Club.
Watch the lessons and fill in the workbook. If you don’t feel calmer and more secure, email my team within 30 days for a full refund.
An on-demand video workshop and workbook for women with anxious attachment. In 4 lessons I take you through the first 4 stages of the Secure-Self Journey, the same method I use with my coaching clients.
No. It works whether you’re single, dating, in a relationship or healing from a breakup. The work is on the patterns inside you, so it helps in every relationship you have.
Most of what’s out there gives you theory and good ideas. This gives you a structure and step-by-step actions to take in real life, so you know what to do the next time your anxiety gets triggered.
No. It’s coaching and education, not therapy, and it isn’t a replacement for a therapist. The skills may be a helpful addition to the work you’re already doing.
The 4 lessons are short enough to watch in one evening, and the workbook takes a few minutes whenever you feel triggered. You keep lifetime access, so you can rewatch any lesson.
After you order, you can book a free call with a coach from my team. They look at your result with you and map out your next steps. It’s there to help you, not to pressure you.
Everything is digital. Your login arrives by email within minutes of ordering, and you can watch on your phone, tablet or laptop. Nothing ships.
Yes. 30 days, no hassle. If you’re not happy for any reason, email my team within 30 days for a full refund.
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